Category Archives: Blessings

A Blessing for Time

A Blessing for Time

Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe,
for Solomon’s wisdom: a time for everything.
A time to feel and a time to numb.
A time to argue and a time to agree.
A time to shower and a time to stink.
A time for kale and a time for funnel cake.
A time for cleaning and a time for doing anything but.
A time for water and a time for wine.

Blessed are You for creating and embracing
every shape, angle, paradox—all we see as incompatible.
You invite us out of the disconnections we struggle under,
to the connections we fear. We dare to hold hands,
to join what appears unjoinable.
We are shocked by Your current, flowing in real time.

Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe,
for gathering all under Your wings,
though You know we may explode
like a chemistry experiment,
or implode like a punctured balloon.
You made a time for everything—
for this moment—
whether calm or catastrophic,
serene or scattered,
fragrant or foul.
Blessing is the birthright of time.

An Invitation to Mystery

An Invitation to Mystery

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for caterpillars,
who quietly eat their way
from size zero to plus-size.

When they grow up
they find a place to hang
from their last proleg,
upside down.
Do they know they will never
eat another leaf?
that their next meal
and every meal thereafter
will be liquid?
Do they know they will
keep only their six front legs?

We humans were like caterpillars
in the garden of Eden,
squishy and naked,
immersed in plenty.
But we didn’t trust the plenty,
didn’t trust ourselves,
didn’t trust God.
We left the mystery of plenty
for the certainty of scarcity.
Perhaps it would have been better for us
to surrender to love,
and to allow love
an element of mystery.

Instead we work
to stay the same size,
the same shape,
eat the same leaves.
We use what we know
to fight against God
and each other,
forgetting that mystery
has its own peace,
and not-knowing sometimes
makes butterflies.

Imperfect Reflection

Imperfect Reflection

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for reflections—
sunlight on white snow,
brightening my house in winter;
sky mirrored on water,
palette of grays and blues—so many blues;
or moon’s wavy, silver pathway
on breeze-wrinkled water.

Blessed are You
for my daughter, whimsical,
playing with her reflection in the window,
laughing because it looks like
she doesn’t have legs.

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for wide landscapes reflected on lakes,
and tiny reflections in roadside puddles.
Nature’s reflections are soft.
Rather than a glass mirror’s invitation to scrutiny,
they invite wonder, playfulness, tranquility.
Sometimes an imperfect reflection is better.

Molten God

Molten God

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for this planet
made of layers,
from fiery liquid center
to outer crust,
with animals and humans
like a cherry on top.

Blessed are You
for Your presence in all the layers,
from burning core
to ants harvesting crumbs
from a picnic at the surface.

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe, for You:
my faithful, fiery center,
unaffected by crusty circumstances.
You are my depths,
each layer inseparable from the next.
You are molten love
in even the most frigid times.
I am grounded in You,
deep beyond my ability to pollute.
No matter how far I run,
I am the same distance from the core.
You are faithful center.

Friendship Is Holding and Being Held

Friendship Is Holding and Being Held

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for fragrant, fragile friendship.
I hold it reverently
and breathe in deeply.

Blessed are You for the wonder
of holding the attention,
the presence,
the story
of a friend,
and for the miracle
that she is willing to hold
my attention,
my presence,
my story.

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for friendship—like a pier—
sturdy place to walk together,
look on vast and unpredictable waters,
and to savor a bit of You in
a faithful human companion,
close enough to hold hands.

Brave Birds

Brave Birds

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for the dove nest
hidden in the evergreen
by our front door.
Two white eggs
in a thin, flat bed of pine needles.
That nest looked too fragile
to hold anything.

Babies hatched—tiny,
bulbous, ugly—
but I said they were cute
and I meant it.

Blessed are You
for faithful mother and father,
sitting and sitting and sitting,
then feeding and feeding and feeding.
Babies are motionless,
so much so I worry they are dead.
But they grow.
I see mama come;
babies eagerly reach into her beak,
swallowing regurgitated seeds.

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for this brave bird family,
risking life in a tenuous world.
In two months—egg to independence—
they do what took me 18 years.
Squabs are now so fat they fill the nest.
When my own two babies—ages 8 and 10—
begin summer vacation,
the doves will be sporting full feathers,
cooing loudly, and finding their own dinner.
Their bravery, my invitation to life.

When I think of baby birds, I think of robins: a sturdy, deep nest full of wide-open beaks, voraciously devouring worms and bugs. This spring I’ve learned that mourning doves are sloppy nest builders, and they feed their babies crop milk and partially digested seeds. There’s a nest right outside our front door, and this front-row seat has grown in me a new awareness of the hundreds of different birds and nests and babies, near and far, all busy participating in the circle of life this Spring.

Motherhood, My Invitation

Motherhood, My Invitation

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for motherhood—crucible,
mental health course—no way to opt out,
sleep—a mocking specter,
messes—everywhere, always;
but this too: my first real invitation to be kind
to the uglier parts of myself.

Blessed are You
for seeing me when I was unseen;
for holding my hand
when motherhood was a mirror.
I saw things I didn’t want to see,
didn’t want to be,
and became afraid of myself.

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for being my companion in the night,
a place to belong
when I didn’t belong in my own self.
You waited, waited for me to hear You,
hear You above the shame,
because You loving me when I hated myself
was the invitation to know my wholeness
and love myself, and in so doing,
to love my children, too.

Atmosphere

Atmosphere

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for atmosphere:
vigilant protector of earth,
gaseous, transparent blanket.
Through it I see lightyears away,
into eternity past.

Blessed are You
for this vastness,
and for the accompanying
sense of smallness,
releasing me from striving
to impress the world,
impress myself, impress You.

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for Your invisible, protective Spirit.
Your presence saves me.
Fear and shame combust on impact.
It is both profligate freedom,
and steadfast humility.
Your breath is my shield,
and my window to eternity.

Love Everyone, and Everywhere Love

Love Everyone, and Everywhere Love

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe,
for Your rooted, yet whimsical, love.
It stands, unmoved by my inner turmoil;
it moves, to stand wherever I am.

Blessed are You
for taking up residence
everywhere, like air.
I breathe Your life
when I remember You
and when I forget You.
I dine at Your expanding table
where there is room for one more
and then one more.

Blessed are You,
Lord our God,
King of the Universe, for this:
because You are a safe place, so am I.
We are haven of emotional safety,
home for anger and doubt,
aware that despite their bulky size,
they are effortlessly held within love.
Love is a home big enough,
always big enough.

Dirty Glass

Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe,
for the two stories I see in my window.

One is a reflection:
I see my bathrobe, illuminated by the sun,
and the antique record player behind me,
topped with books and memorabilia.
Partial walls and transient shapes
tell an incomplete story.

The second story is detailed and in full color:
the neighbor’s large plum tree, crowded with pink blossoms;
green lawns, weed patches, roofs and fences;
long shadows on the ground;
intense sun in a cloudless sky.

Blessed are You for this dirty glass, both a window and a mirror.
It collects dust left by rain drops dried in the sun and wind,
and oily smears left by small hands and curious faces.

Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe,
for the convergence of stories in my window.
The glass both divides and connects,
reminding me that You are glass
between my inside story and my outside story,
always connecting, reflecting, protecting, illustrating;
always letting the light come in.